Saturday, May 14, 2011

True True for ALL beings

"When love awakens in your life, in the night of your heart, it is like the dawn breaking within you. Where before there was anonymity, now there is intimacy; where before there was fear, now there is courage; where before in your life there was awkwardness, now there is a rhythm of grace and gracefulness; where before you used to be jagged, now you are elegant and in rhythm with your self. When love awakens in your life, it is like a rebirth, a new beginning. "

- John O'Donohue , an Irish poet, philosopher & Catholic scholar

                  Yes , true love is a deep bond with the lovers that, stands in between them clearly without any limitless  with the deeds. Here John who describes that as we bond to the true love all the fear disappearing , creating for them a world with love ,grace, and courage to lead the life till end.

But can somebody tell a marriage be said to be a true love........maybe it is that leads to true love... in that way for me

                       I am not too experienced to do have a through talk , according to me when or at the time a marriage is set is a bond in which both the folks or partners are too keen watching themselves ,in a suspicious manner waiting eagerly to study about the others desires and outlook. At that time it’s just budding their true love which will gradually grows here after. Or may sometime burn to ashes living only a bogus smile to turn his surrounding happy. So it’s just a play with the game considering their luck. One can’t say because  many cases are referred that in the  happiness turned to black and awful sadness.

If one gains a true love before marriage is set then it is a blessing, that hold tight the feelings and desire and being understandable for each other which willingly gives them much support and comfort mentally and physically there after.

But Indians are more comprehensible than to westernize, maybe it is because of the heritage, a history tuned   for them that starts narration of the beauty in life from a life born and plainly their style.

                            Considerably it is more true to say asthe Husband and Wife is a much-needed place for Christian and non - Christian couples to be able to tastefully and comfortably add some fun and romance into their life. Having a resource for intimate products that also provides a respectful environment so as  needed for married couples today. I applaud the founders of Husband and Wife for their efforts to strengthen marriages sexually. These things all describes the way to true love.

                           True love never hurts the feeling of one-other. Dumped in sorrow but never allow his or her partner to be hurt, and if in any times U came to know that a partner who relief from his tension only when, he had the spouse marked with humiliation, for any old impair.... that love is not termed as a true love, it just a starting for something that wait silently as a fox to hang up in its time. As, because in such times people will think that good my incomparability has been accepted by everyone and that is ......
a false impression which will  led to a breakdown.




Wednesday, May 4, 2011


 There is a special bond between a father and son. Maybe it's because the son will carry on his father's name or because a father has someone that they can share their hobbies with. Whatever the reason that bond is there. But if father son relationship is not nourished it will weaken, especially during those teen years. Sometimes sons are different than their fathers and do not enjoy the same activities. Then it is up to the father to find a way to bond with his son. If your son isn't the athletic type you could play games together or build a puzzle.

There was a father –my father who had strong ambition in life ,who endeavour hard for his wealthy the wealthy living and future. I think, Sometimes when days get older father-son bound gets firm as then only the son realises the truthiness told by his father. The same is in my case.

He used to tell me about the living style especially when out on a working board. But as teens it was so awful to hear his description. He used to tell about love and characteristics in once living hood. But as days passed the he became my adversary that I start murmuring about him.

 As I see the most awful thing is that he used to read narration from Ramayana, or any Hindu spiritual books which says about sons responsibilities. Then he will compare it with me, then further he will compare me with his associates-sons and his loved ones and then conclude that I m the most polluted one among the youngsters.

When I am back after school, he will shoot at me as “U are not supposed to throw things here and there ,all should be in orderly as your mother keeps good care to arrange the room.!!!!!”


“I saw your nephew, he finished his bath u are the one who rushes after unwanted things without concern “


“Why does u keep talking repeatedly same things, always there should be a discipline in talking”
I used to get this in time to time, and felt angry with him, as according to me all these are natural happening that every “Father’s Son”  does. What is the speciality in me?

I remember he used to scold for everything and anything which make my father my adversary. If I am keep sleeping in morning he will come and snatch my blanket, and felt great pleasure in my fuming.  

Later, after his death it was fully tough to live without his beating. Every where i look he took my mindset. And let me tell

Once in a meeting, I was answering again to the question when the Mr.Stallin told with a smile in his face “I Heard YOU” .I my father words spark in me.

The day I came late to meet my spouse, in a holiday her compliance determined that my father’s word are true.

Really I realised my father who was trying to sweep my obscurity in my life that which “I” disliked in his life time. He was observing each and every tick in me and was my greatest teacher.
He taught me  perseverance and grace, and understanding that what they achieve is related to how hard they work, and that they be humble in victory and gracious in any defeat.
I pray my reverence, for the care he put on growing me up.
Now, for me he is living along with me, in my deeds, in my days and along..... with my family
We all love him the most.


      Global warming has become perhaps the most complicated issue facing world leaders. On the one hand, warnings from the scientific community are becoming louder, as an increasing body of science points to rising dangers from the ongoing build-up of human-related greenhouse gases — produced mainly by the burning of fossil fuels and forests. On the other, the technological, economic and political issues that have to be resolved before a concerted worldwide effort to reduce emissions can begin have gotten no simpler, particularly in the face of a global economic slowdown.

     Greenhouse gases are “include water vapour, carbon dioxide, methane, nitrous oxide, and ozone components of the atmosphere that contribute to the greenhouse effect. Some greenhouse gases occur naturally in the atmosphere, while others result from human activities
    In the United States, on Jan. 2, 2011, the Environmental Protection Agency imposed its first regulations related to greenhouse gas emissions. The immediate effect on utilities, refiners and major manufacturers will be small, with the new rules applying only to those planning to build large new facilities or make major modifications to existing plants.  Over the next decade, however, the agency plans to regulate virtually all sources of greenhouse gases, imposing efficiency and emissions requirements on nearly every industry and every region.

    President Obama vowed as a candidate that he would put the United States on a path to addressing climate change by reducing emissions of carbon dioxide and other greenhouse gas pollutants but still thinking.....

India is one of the most vulnerable countries when it comes to effects of global warming The Himalayan glaciers have started to melt and the average rate of retreat is almost twice (34 metres) per year as compared to the 1971 levels of 19 metres. The melting glaciers will cause temperatures and sea-levels to rise and there will be a cascading effect on the crops and the monsoons. Worse – whole islands are expected to vanish! In fact two have already gone under – two islands in the Sunder bans (an area which India shares with Bangladesh). Temperatures in the group of islands has already gone up by one degree centigradestal line and the rising sea levels caused by global warming will cause an ecological disaster.

In fact, as far back as 1993 a study to evaluate the impact of rising sea levels on India was carried out by JNU (Jawaharlal Nehru University). They calculated what would happen if the sea-levels rose by just 1 metre…and they found that as many as 7 million people would be displaced and 5,764 sq km of lain September 2002, scientists at the National Centre for Agricultural Economics and Policy Research conducted a people’s perception survey on climate-induced natural disasters in the Kendrapara-district of Orissa. The results showed that the frequency and intensity of droughts have increased and so have the incidents of flooding. Also, the intensity of cyclones has increased and people believed that the sea-water had become warmer.

These poor villagers do not know why this is happening .!!!!!!!!!

 Global Warming. Ironically these poor villages hardly contribute to global warming…they hardly emit any greenhouse gassing and 4,200 km of roads would be lost! And not roads every time lives are more important than roads...for sure and it is something to be seriously considered.

As of these increasing disaster every human is to rise for the prevention material as for now if this is just some interesting record, later would be something predestine that turn over his future.